Remembering a Warm-Hearted Patient

When I was a resident I worked in a general medicine clinic. One afternoon each week, I’d get more dressed than usual and split off from my inpatient team around noon to go see patients in another building, outside of the hospital.

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Today, I’m reminded of a man I saw there and treated for two years. His name was Mr. Sunshine.* The first time I met him, it was in the midst of a noisy, crowded and windowless waiting room.

“Mr. Sunshine?” I called out, as loudly as I could from the receptionists’ desk. I’d skimmed through his chart including partial notes of a recent hospitalization. It was 1988, long before we stopped calling patients by their names in public areas. He stood up and greeted me with a broad smile. He shook my hand before I guided him to a smaller, quieter windowless room for his examination. He carried a medium-sized suitcase.

Mr. Sunshine had heart disease, kidney disease, diabetes, and peripheral vascular disease. He’d had a heart attack or two, and possibly a stroke. He was a large man. As I recall, he came from North Carolina but had lived most of his life in Brooklyn. After some brief, standard but sincere chit-chat about who we each were, I asked him why he was there in the clinic. “I’m sick,” he said. “I think maybe I should be in the hospital.” That was, essentially, his chief complaint.

Being the diligent resident that I was, I attempted to get through a review of systems (ROS) – the drill by which doctors run through a lot of questions as fast as possible, starting like this: “Do you get headaches, earaches, have trouble hearing, double vision, blurred vision, sinus congestion, a runny nose, frequent sore throats, swollen glands, cough, pain on swallowing…” Keep in mind, this was before most doctors had sheets for patients to answer these questions in advance, on a checklist, or NPs to ask the questions for them. If you were lucky, and smooth, and the patient wasn’t “difficult” – or really sick, you could get through a complete ROS in under 1.5 minutes.

Mr. Sunshine said he was tired and short of breath most of the time. He pulled from his suitcase a crumpled, large brown bag with more than 20 medication vials and vitamins. There was a set of pajamas inside, and other stuff including a toothbrush.

I didn’t admit Mr. Sunshine to the hospital that day, but we bonded. He stayed as my patient in the clinic for two years, always treating me with respect while I adjusted and tried to reduce his meds.

Once he asked me if he might ask me a question.

“Sure,” I told him.

“Are you Jewish?” he asked.

“Yes, I am.”

He nodded.  I lacked the nerve to ask him why he wanted to know. He told me he sang at his church.

When I moved on to become a fellow in hematology and oncology, Mr. Sunshine asked if he could still be my patient. I told him that in my new position I’d be working in another clinic, and only with patients who had either cancer or serious blood disease. He didn’t have cancer, or sickle cell anemia, or anything like that.

“If I get leukemia, will you be my doctor?” he asked me.

“Yes,” I told him. “But it’s a good thing you don’t have that now,” I said, adding: “I wish you the best, Mr. Sunshine.”


(*The patient’s name was not Mr. Sunshine, but it was equally evocative of his disposition.)

I’ve been thinking lately, what makes you recall some patients. I hope he’s doing OK, wherever he is now. Same for all my patients, really. I wish I could tell them.

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2 thoughts on “Remembering a Warm-Hearted Patient

  1. Dr.Schattner,

    Perhaps one of the best complements a Blogger can receive is when the reader keeps the post in their heart and mind. While not a physician, I have worked as a clinician and I agree there are those who touch out lives in profound ways but we are not always able to pin point the exact reason why.

    This week in North Carolina was a disappointing one for those of us who believe in the right to marry those we love. I know many people in my family changed their hearts and minds when “one of our own” shared his truth.

    While neither of us will ever know the truth, I like to think Mr. Sunshine might have asked you if you were Jewish as a means of obtaining more information and breaking a stereotype that might have been given to him as a young person growing up in North Carolina. Tears came to my eyes when Mr. Sunshine said

    “If I get leukemia, will you be my doctor?”

    When you love your Patients they love you back.

    Thank you,
    Lisa

  2. Thanks, Lisa. I hadn’t thought of this “lesson” or message in terms of overcoming prejudice and stereotypes, but you’re right: It applies to many kinds.

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